“…my shine wore off as time wore on…”

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Those readers that have followed this blog for any significant length of time will note that I constantly, relentlessly and unashamedly tout the importance of men living for themselves.

 

Placing their needs, interests (other than women) and wants (again, other than women) above all else.

 

The reason for this is twofold:

 

1} This is the straightest path to satisfaction and self-respect.

 

2} This is the healthiest path to acquiring female companionship.

 

Additionally, it’s why I am a serious proponent of ► being yourself ◄.

 

Since this is the surest path to becoming exceptional.

 

After all, a Truly self-actualized man cannot be accurately duplicated.

 

 

 

As a wise woman once brilliantly articulated to me:

 

“Women want the exception.

 

Men want the rule.”

 

 

 

Realize, “nice guys” aren’t rebuffed because they’re nice, per se. 

 

They’re rebuffed because they are commonplace.

 

A world of police, firefighters, government handouts and obsequious  men cause villains and cads to become exceptional, simply by default.

 

Men find it a Herculean task to attract a woman for so many reasons but the largest contributor is the basic fact that – due to television, internet and a massive population – being exceptional is more difficult than ever.

 

Why do you think so many famous “PUAs” move to other countries?

 

Being exceptional is exponentially easier if for no other reason than they’re foreign.

 

 

 

On that note, this feminine desire for the exceptional is also the reason so many women claim – and honestly so (to a point)  – that “PUA tactics would never work on [them]”.

 

Certainly, from the comfort of their current surroundings and plugged into an internet connection with an immeasurable plethora of exceptionality before them with just a tap of the screen, the stratagems discussed are laughable in their eyes. 

 

However, once they find themselves outside – awash in a sea of standard, cookie-cutter men (raised by single mothers, female teachers and girl day-care attendants) with all semblances of uniqueness stamped out of them, save almost parody-level “male interests” – the formerly ridiculous techniques transform into surprisingly efficacious behavior.

 

 

 

Be aware, Lemmy from Motörhead bedded 1200+ women.

 

Hardly a handsome fellow or even a “standard rock-star” as, in person, he was thoughtful, self-deprecating and generally reserved in his behavior (aside from substance abuse).

 

In fact, his band never even achieved any real degree of mainstream success.

 

 

 

The same with Peter Steele of Type O Negative. 

 

A towering figure at 6’8” whose band took nothing seriously except their music.

 

Who preferred wine and conversation to ostentatious parties (again, aside from substance abuse at the start).

 

 

 

Thus, we come full-circle.

 

Invest in yourself, your hobbies and your skills.

 

And think on this:

 

Three simple, minuscule  protons create the vast divide between lead and gold.

 

 

 

 

 

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